What We Like About D

Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Inbound!

I like that Dean is coming to see us. I have dearly missed being a part of the relationship that is blooming between him and Emma (but for being a noisy spectator). Having an in-person hands-shaking (possibly awkward-hugging, be warned) relationship with him will make us a part of what is happening to her.

And now I have someplace cool to show him if we go by my office (instead of, you know, driving by a prison or something).

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

Seeing stars.


He knows what I like and what makes me happy.
He gives me the best birthdays!
He sneaked into my room and puts glow-in-the-dark stars all over!
It helps me go to sleep knowing that he loves me.

He gets me flowers!

He sends me pictures when he is away and when I miss him.
He talks with me and sends me texts- even when he is busy.

He goes on dates with me!
One of my favorites this semester: we went down to Provo Lake to skip rocks.
Then got our favorite shakes at Stan's - a blackberry cheesecake.
It was simple and fun.
Good to enjoy nature and a nice day.

I had an amazing time in California!
Explored the aquarium in Monterey.
Saw sea otters, penguins, the octopus move!, jellyfish, seahorses, an albatross!, sharks, and so many cool fish! Awesome touch pool.
Went to the tide pools in Santa Cruz!
I found my own star fish!
And was then promptly swallowed by a sea wave!
Best sushi I've ever had.
Hid easter eggs for the primary kids.
Went to Big Basin with Dean's two best friends from kindergarten.
Saw lots of amazing Red Wood trees!
Had a wonderful Easter dinner.
Looked through baby pictures!
Saw lots of CA poppies.
Saw some stars w/o light pollution.
Very hard to leave and come back to Provo.

We took pictures on Dean's camera- I still have to get them from him.
But will try to post when I have them!

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Trains



photo credit

I learned that Dean really likes Thomas the Train, the way Emmalyn really likes elephants. And there just happens to be a red train named "James" #5 engine, friend of Thomas.

It is good to have an icon theme/collection.

Sunday, April 24, 2011

Fasting

I like that Dean fasted with me for Emma's headaches to go away.

One thing I have considered an important virtue my entire life is to find commonality with others. Where I work, where I worship, in the neighborhood. There is always *something* we can have in common, something to build on.

I am glad to have that thing in common with Dean. I hope we can build on it, come to see one another as allies in pursuit of the common good of Emma's health and happiness.

Sunday, April 17, 2011

I'm a Shortest Distance Between Two Points Kind of Guy

What I like about Dean is mostly future tense stuff. I know Emma likes him (which I like). I know he cares very much about Emma's happiness and stability (which I also like).

I like that someday, I am going to get to meet him.

I like that he makes food with and for Emma. I like that there exists the good likelihood that someday he will share that talent in my home with the rest of us.

I like that being happy matters to him. I sincerely believe happiness is one of the key indicators of a truly gospel-centered life. I like that I will come to understand what makes him happy, and what his goals for happiness are.

I like that he wants to have Family Home Evening. I like thinking about how that might happen when he visits our family. At home. In the Evening, perhaps.

I like that he plays games. I like playing Lord of the Rings Online (what's that, you didn't know it won PC Gamer's Massive Multi-player Online Game of the year for 2010?) with him, and look forward to other play-times.

I get the impression from Emma that he has a gift for being whimsical. I like that, there is not enough whimsy in today's youth. I know, he's an adult, and in that sense he's my peer, but he's on the youth-ish side of that...

I like that he's kind to his sister. One of my most memorable conversations was the one where my Mom told me the way I treated my sisters is a good forecast of how I would treat my wife.

I like that there are more somedays with Dean than there are yesterdays.